Showing Up

Aspire to Succeed 2 Minutes

“Nothing is more expensive than a missed opportunity” H. Jackson Brown Jr

Chatting about the concept of time is crucial.

Time is a valuable resource when talking careers.

As the saying goes, time is of the essence.

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Let’s Reflect

  • Do you show up for appointments on time?
  • What do you do when you realize that you cannot make it to an appointment?
  • How many appointments have you missed by simply forgetting about them?
  • Do you let people know that you cannot make it to an appointment?

Your Perspective

Now let’s look at it from your perspective.

  • How do you feel when someone does not show up for an appointment?
  • What would you do if someone misses an appointment?
  • When do you give up on a person showing up?
  • Where do you draw the line on the number of neglected appointments you allow a person?

World of Work

In the world of work, punctuality and time management are treasured skills. And yes, a missed appointment can be a missed opportunity. Here are some examples:

  • Show up. A missed interview without an excuse is squandered time for your interviewer who can dictate whether or not you will get a second opportunity to interview. It will give the impression that you lack time management.
  • Be punctual. Whether for an interview or work, being punctual reflects that you have the potential to be dependable, a timeless skill.
  • Reschedule. If you know you cannot make it or have second thoughts about the scheduled appointment, request to cancel or reschedule. This shows that you are respectful, a very valuable life skill.
  • Apologize. A simple apology as soon as you remember the forgotten appointment guarantees a second appointment. Apologizing is a crucial social skill that may take time to ease into, but it will be worth your time to start practicing it. It is integrity at its best.

Can you think of an incident where you missed an appointment and had to reschedule? How did that go for you?

Do You forgive?

I have clients requesting to reschedule on a daily basis. I have no problem rescheduling their appointments because they let me know. Even when they forget an appointment, I am happy to reschedule if they send an apology. Needless to say, once they do show up to an appointment, our coaching session will include a discussion on all of the above.

How do you feel about people not showing up to your scheduled appointments?

I am Hoda Kilani, your Certified Professional Career Coach. I provide individual and group coaching. I teach you the latest strategies to innovatively craft your journey your way! Let’s chat.

Published by Dr. Hoda Kilani CPCC

I am a passionate career literacy and gifted education advocate! If you like talking about either of my two passions, let’s chat. For the past few years, I have been a career and educational coach. Before that, I wore many hats experimenting with every opportunity that presented itself and throughout it all, my passion and commitment was to help others succeed and make a difference in the world. I have been working from home since 2013! In the past few years, I developed a private career coaching practice Right Career Fit, earned a Master of Education, a Doctor of Education as well as a career coaching certificate. The success of my private practice is a testament to my talent development and resource planning skills. I am a lifelong learner with a natural intellectual curiosity and I love challenges. Presenting and attending conferences across North America (in person and virtually) reflect my belief in the value of advocating for my two passions. I am also constantly looking for opportunities to influence public policy and increase support for the teaching and learning communities with a focus on inclusive career practices in Canada and globally. This is why I am a Chair/Board Director on various Boards. The past year has been a mix of significant losses and unforeseen challenges as well as amazing opportunities and unanticipated gains for many of us. I hope everyone is doing well...Despite all of this, each of us survived in our own way. Yet we continue to feel overwhelmed and concerned about the forces that the new year could bring. I encourage you to get involved in your communities, personal or professional. There is nothing like having the support of people who care about you during the ups and downs of this era. To close, I strive to be a spokesperson for the importance of career education and continue to work with a variety of media to create awareness of its value. I am on a mission to have #careerliteracy trend across social media. If you care to join me, let’s chat!

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